I do think that focusing on individuals' tastes in guys isn't productive and largely rooted from a place of "why didn't you pay attention to ME" but like also it's incredibly alienating to constantly be ignored and discounted for your looks even when you're not trying to get laid
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like i remember this one guy i hit up back in seattle cause he talked about tabletop gaming on his profile totally ignored me until i met him at a bar with a friend and suddenly he's very interested in talking cause he wants to sleep with my friend lol
